FAQs

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Are you really a submissive?

Didn’t you read my rant about Bond babes? But yes, if by ‘real’ you mean have an authentic interest in S/M; am committed to a principled approach to kink (centring consent, communication, and risk-awareness), have amassed almost a decade of practice in my personal life (with the mistrials and tribulations to boot), and continue to seek and out explore the carnal pleasure that comes with surrender, then consider me a submissive.

Are you a real redhead?

You’ll simply have to meet me and discover if the carpet matches the drapes.

How can I learn more about your likes and limits?

If you’re asking yourself this question, chances are we’re going to get along famously. I am happy to provide a complete lists of likes and limits alike, following receipt of your initial inquiry. Don’t see your kink listed? Get in touch and let’s discuss. I’m always on the lookout for new philia’s to add to my repertoire.

Will we have an opportunity to negotiate?

Now I know we’re going to get along. Negotiating a ‘scene’ is an integral part of BDSM and as a submissive who plays with people the first time I meet them, it is even more important that I know what the expectations are. Following your initial email, we’ll take time to discuss and hash out our areas of mutual interest. At the beginning of our session, I also like to take-time to go over my limits, safeword, re-hash agreements and ensure we’re speaking the same language (at least where kink is concerned). Sound unsexy? I’ll show you it doesn’t have to be.

Do you accept requests for bespoke, or niche, roleplay?

With great pleasure. Roleplay is an absolute passion of mine. It provides the ideal frame to ensure a multi-hour meeting never has a dull moment. I relish being let-in on your innermost desires, and even more in bringing them to life! I am most keen on realising fantasies off the beaten (pun intended) track. Seeing what makes you tick, and getting to explore uncharted territory simultaneously sounds like my ideal Saturday. From recreation of memories, to cinematic and literary moments, don’t hesitate to pitch me your heart’s desire; the weirder, the more wonderful.

Do you accept custom outfit requests?

Certainly. Dress-up is one of my favourite aspects of preparing for a meeting. I possess an extensive collection of fetish wear, encompassing latex, leather, lingerie, corsets, gloves, high-heels, and stockings galore. I also have costumes to suit a variety of role-plays, including authentic school uniforms, nurse, maid, secretary, sailor, and nun attire, pet-tails, ears, whiskers etc., among others. I am happy to indulge costume requests, including specific characters; if not already in my possession I will ask you to either bring to our meeting or cover the costs of procurement, with good time in advance.

Do you cater to couples?

Absolutely. I adore being let in on a couple’s dynamic, and in turn weaving one of our own. A bisexual through and through, I cater to couples of all gender configurations. Whether looking to explore new horizons and experience the ecstasy, the possibility, of three bodies working as one, or take on more of a voyeur/exhibitionist tilt, the options are constrained only by imagination. I ask that couples pay a deposit of 50% to account for potential cold feet, though of course I will do my absolute best to put both parties at ease in the run-up.

Do you offer duo or group bookings?

The more the merrier! Take a look at my Playmates page for inspiration. One of my favourite ways to spend a session is having you watch, while a skilled, striking Mistress takes control.